I know many women who are in their 40s and are single. Despite several attempts at love, they have not found “Mr Right”. The women I know are also attractive and gainfully employed. They are not looking for a “Sugar Daddy”. They can handle their business. The question remains, “Why are they still on the market and they have so much going for them?”
On the other hand, most of my girlfriends who are divorcees, have since remarried or are in satisfied relationships (not everyone wants to be married). So this intrigued me. I could not understand why a man will quicker marry a woman who is divorced, and in some cases she has children, than a woman who has never walked down the aisles and is single and available. I decided to do my research.
After chatting with several of my male acquaintances and relatives, I discovered some cold, hard facts. It was brought to my attention that not every woman is “wife material”. Ladies, you know how we can tell from the first date whether he is “husband material “ or not? Well the same applies to us. Many years ago, one of my male friends shared with me that a man usually knows within the first month of dating you if he is going to marry you. I would later ask my husband if this is true, and he said yes.
I know that there are many women who will find this article helpful and others who will find it offensive. I apologize in advance. I also recognize that their are many women in their 40s who are single by choice. They simply cannot be bothered to try and train another man. If this is so, I don’t blame them 😎. However, if you are one of the aforementioned sisters still hoping to find love,please note the following:
At the end of the day, being single in your 40s is is not a crime. But if you have been living in the same place all of your life and you, your friends and your school mates are recycling the same guys, (i.e penises) please consider moving. Is it possible that the pool you are selecting from is way too small? If I were you, I would migrate😜. (I am just saying). However, migrating only helps if the above issues are addressed. As the saying goes, “You can run, but you can’t hide.” Address what is going on on the inside before you change your address.
P.S Good luck finding the man of your dreams
Basia aka Slayer