Teach People How To Treat You

One of the most valuable lessons I learnt at an early age is that you teach people how to treat you. This applies to friendships, and relationships. Most people are unaware that they train others by the way they respond to their treatment.

If you teach someone to take you for granted by taking their crap, they will continue to do so. It is not what you say to someone, it is what you accept from them that has an impact.

I have met women who have told me how bad their exes were to them. Yet that same person gets a five star review from another woman, simply because different women accept different things from their partners.

This does not only apply to intimate relationships. It applies to platonic relationships as well. People may not expect great things from you, unless you demonstrate that you are capable of great things. They will also entertain you and socialize with you at the level you demand.

It is harder for most women to earn professional respect, particularly minority women. A man will quicker get professional respect than a woman. However, women who train others how to address and treat them, achieve the desired results. If you answer to a label or title you don’t like, you will continue to be addressed as such.

You can choose how you want to be treated or addressed by the way you respond.

Have a blessed day all😘. Go forth and slay😍

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Basia aka Slayer