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Letter To My 18 Year Old Self❤️

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Dear 18 year old Basia, As I approach my 45th birthday, I would like to check in with you. I wish you would have told me that an 18 year old girl raised by a divorced mother, could be anything she wants to be….

Basia Talks 3

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Secret To A Happy Marriage❤️

Have you ever heard the saying, “Happy wife, happy life.” Well it is actually the secret to a happy marriage. Marriage is not as hard as people make it out to be. It really gets complicated when two people have nothing in common and…

The Cosby Effect

It seems like Hollywood is experiencing a cleansing. I sit here and I ask myself, “Who is next?” It is a liberating time for women and the abused. Attention all men, keep your penis in your pants,unless we ask you to take it out!…

Christmas Gift Ideas

If you are still on the market for Christmas gifts then your best bet is online shopping! This year I made a killing. I was super organized and I capitalized on all the Black Friday and Cyber Monday deals. I am seriously feeling like…

Struggle vs Climb

Struggle is not a word I like very much. In fact, the struggle is not real in my head. Many people, when asked, “How are you doing?”, sometimes respond, “ I am there,struggling.” The idea that they have accepted struggle is the real problem….

Happy Thanksgiving

Today I give thanks for life. I feel very blessed to have spent a fabulous day with my family and friends. As I reflect on Thanksgiving, I am grateful for my life, family (some of whom I am not related to by blood) and…

The “Side-Chic”

I realize that a lot of men are confused about the fact that not every woman is trying to be their wife. There are three types of women. The first kind we call her, “Wife Material”. There is no doubt in her man’s mind…

Basia Talks 2

Hey Guys Checkout my video Basia Talks 2 , “No Money, No Love.” For more videos, visit my Basia Powell Youtube channel. Cheers Basia aka Slayer

No Money, No Love

I do not believe in love at first sight. I believe in attraction at first sight. How can you seriously love someone you do not know? Recently, I was asked by a friend if she should choose love or money as she navigates the…

Healthy Food Ideas This Holiday

I love the holidays but I don’t like the weight gain that sometimes come with the season. In order to keep the extra pounds off this Thanksgiving, I am putting a lot of thought and planning in my menu. While I may not get…

Basia Talks

I have heard you! Here are my thoughts on my article, “40 and Single?” (Full article available on my blog,